St Helens Crematorium & Cemeteries

Support & guidance

Bereavement Support

Losing someone is never easy, and working out what needs to happen next can feel overwhelming. This page brings together clear, practical guidance — from registering a death to arranging a funeral — written by our own bereavement team to help you through it, one step at a time.

Step by step

What to do when someone dies

1

Get medical certification

A doctor (or in some cases the coroner) issues the medical certificate of cause of death. If the death has been referred to the coroner, timings for the funeral may need to flex around their process — we can talk you through what that means.

2

Registering a death

This is usually the first step, and needs to happen within 5 days. You can register at any register office, or your funeral director can often guide you through it. You'll be given a certificate you'll need for the next steps.

3

Tell relevant organisations

The government's free 'Tell Us Once' service lets you report a death to most council and central government departments in one go, including pensions and benefits.

4

Arrange the funeral

Choose burial or cremation, and a date and time that works for your family. You're welcome to use any funeral director, or come to us directly — see 'Arranging a funeral with us' below for what's involved.

5

Has your loved one left a will?

If your loved one has left a will, it might include their wishes such as if they want to be buried or cremated. Their will and other relevant papers such as grave deeds etc. may be at home, in a bank, with a solicitor or even other relatives.

6

Did they have a pre-paid funeral plan?

Check whether they had a prepaid funeral plan, life insurance or savings to help cover funeral costs. A prepaid plan may have already covered arrangements and recorded their wishes.

7

Grave ownership

If burial is planned, check whether they own a grave. Ownership usually passes to the executors, who can transfer it by completing the required forms and paying a £80 fee.

8

Partnership Funeral Service

The Partnership Funeral Service is available to arrange funerals for St Helens residents being cremated or buried locally. Eligibility is not based on income, and no payment is made by St Helens Borough Council.

When you're ready

Arranging a funeral with us

There's no obligation to use a particular funeral director, and our own team can guide you through burial, cremation or choosing a memorial — clearly, compassionately, and without private-provider mark-ups.

Further support

Useful links

You don't have to work this out alone

Our bereavement team is here to support you, whatever stage you're at — even if you just have a question and nothing is decided yet.